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Guy-Friends Stamp by Tri-Jean Guy-Friends Stamp by Tri-Jean
This is for the girls...

Don't you hate it when you have a friend, who is a guy, and people start making rumors saying that you're a couple and going out together? They think that your friend is your boyfriend when he really is just a friend. I've had that happen to me... Oh, how frustrating it had become...

I met this guy named Michael in Geography during my Freshman year, and we became friends. We'd help each other on the reading assignments and said hello to each other before class started. Everything seemed to go so smoothly my Freshman year.

But then things started to get a little crazy by Sophomore year. That year had to be my worst from High School. Michael and I had the same lunch hour, which made me feel pretty happy because then I wouldn't feel alone. We sat together and talked, laughing and having fun, as well as focusing on study guides. He also greeted me when I got to school to go to my Spanish class.

Then one day, people started asking me 'Ooooo, I've been seeing you around Michael. Is he your boyfriend? Are you two going out?'. Never did I expect to hear this from them. I was shocked when they asked me this, and it made me really upset. Seriously, can't a girl have friends who's a guy that is not my boyfriend? I wish people wouldn't jump to conclusions. The more I was asked this by surrounding people in my other classes, the more I got so annoyed I snapped, and I don't usually show my anger at school. I'm actually a very nice, silent, shy person...

What made my year even worse was that the rumors convinced Michael to believe that we were actually together as a couple. He started acting very odd around me, wrapping his arm around my waist, leaning over me to sniff my hair. I was terribly frightened. And the day after Valentine's day, he had given me a rose [I love roses...] but then he kissed me on the forehead without even asking me, and I squealed and lunged for Health class, and he tried to stop me, snatching my wrist and trying to pull me back. This had gone too far... I told him that we were only friends. I was comfortable enough to have him as a friend... And yet, after a few weeks or a month, he'd ask me if I've changed my mind and would beg for me to accept him as a boyfriend. Peer pressure peer pressure... I still wanted him as a friend :( So... eventually things settled down. We remained as friends.

Still... I hate it when people assume that a friend of mine [male] and I are dating when we are most certainly not. We can have friends of the opposite sex too!


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Update: Thank you all very much for the favorites! And I'm also happy to hear of others' similar stories!
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NG480 Featured By Owner 17 hours ago
I know the feeling.  This type of teasing can really lead to amatonormativity and can get really annoying most of the time.
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cyrlebush Featured By Owner 1 day ago  New Deviant
I have some male friends; most are idiots but I still love them.
I'm a nonbinary lesbian, which while is an odd topic to bring up at this time plays an important role in my life in school. Students guess that whenever I hang out with a boy I'm dating him, when almost half of the boys I hang out with don't even like me.
However, I do remember some fuckboy com across me while I was talking to this girl (he knows I'm gay) named Paris and he said to her "awe, Paris, you found a new girlfriend?" and I really wanted to break a chair over the back of his thick skull.
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xXStar-LightsXx Featured By Owner 3 days ago  New Deviant Student Digital Artist
:iconiknowthatfeelbroplz:
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sugilita Featured By Owner 1 day ago
Seriously?Why i find you in every page i visit? XDD
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xXStar-LightsXx Featured By Owner 1 day ago  New Deviant Student Digital Artist
magic xD
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sugilita Featured By Owner 1 day ago
Well,maybe Amy is stalking Tails and you got a Tails icon. XDDDD
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xXStar-LightsXx Featured By Owner 1 day ago  New Deviant Student Digital Artist
this makes sense xDDDD
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sugilita Featured By Owner 1 day ago
Tails Sprite Animation 1 Amy spin spin WTF 
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ShortLemonie3 Featured By Owner Jun 21, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank you for making this stamp. It needed to be said. 
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Zorua101 Featured By Owner Jun 17, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I have several male friends, and people always assume that one of them is my boyfriend. :iconfacepalmplz: By that logic, I'm lesbian for all my female friends, right? And if two guys are friends, they must be gay? This logic is flawed. -_- I even saw one person on the internet say "When a boy's best friend is a girl, they end up falling in love" as if it was a fact. It sickens me.
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LexWindTheWarriorCat Featured By Owner Jun 14, 2015  Student Digital Artist
this happens to me all the time
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GodsGeek Featured By Owner Jun 4, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Yay, I found this type of stamps! Good, because I have a lot of guy friends and been called a slut for it despite me being loyal to my one and only boyfriend. 
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MelodyPuppyz Featured By Owner May 28, 2015  New Deviant Hobbyist Traditional Artist
OMGG I NEED TO USE THIS STAMP AS SOON I"M NOT LAZY
I Have this GUYfriend That me and him are like best friends and once we hugged as friends!
And all the girls started to tease me saying I have a...

BOYFRIEND
I'm Still mad about it :/
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WindySilver Featured By Owner May 10, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
Yeah, that's so annoying. Quite recently I met a boy at an event which lasted for the weekend. He is two years younger than me but we're attending the same school yet. We got along very well and the next week I happened to see him at school during a school break and went to talk with him. Well, wasn't it just that a friend of mine assumed something else than what it was... Ah, darn, I so wanted to punch her. Or at least show some very inapproriate hand signs...
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WaffleMurder Featured By Owner Apr 26, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
And it always makes me feel really weird whenever I talk to one of my guy friends and see a gal I know making a heart with her hands.
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delightfulred33 Featured By Owner Apr 24, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
this is me
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Areesha341 Featured By Owner Apr 18, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree with you. In my old school my best friend was a guy. Everyone kept making fun of me. Even my parents said that I should be friends with girls. This kept going on until he moved.
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JameytheHedgehog Featured By Owner Apr 11, 2015  Student General Artist
This is for the girls and also me.

^^;
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FlareTheFireWolf Featured By Owner Apr 4, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Yep

(all the girls in my class are pi***d at me because i'm friends with every boy in my class)
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:iconsugilita:
sugilita Featured By Owner 1 day ago
They are jelly. XD 
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FlareTheFireWolf Featured By Owner 20 hours ago  Hobbyist Artist
XD
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Beginneratart Featured By Owner Mar 20, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree. I have as much guy friends as girl friends, but I hang out with one more often than the rest, along with my other girl friend. Sorry I have no story here XD
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DaisyLover4Ever88 Featured By Owner Edited Feb 2, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Agreed.Just Because We Have Friends that are Boys, doesn't Mean we Are ACTUALLY Boyfriends :XD: Once, My Friend Asked Me If I liked A guy From School Named Esteban.I Said No.I Mean, Just Because We Hang Out Or Talk To each Other It Doesn't Mean We Are Couples!! He Hasn't Asked Me Out and he NEVER Will Because He already has a Girlfriend.and Yes, I Hang out More with Boys.That Is Why My Friends That are Girly girls (Otherwise i Am A tomboy :XD:) Say That Me And The Boys Are Dating Or Are Like, Ya Know BOYFRIENDS.For Some Reason, My Friends Say That To Me Or the Boys But Me? I HAVE NEVER TOLD ANY OF MY FRIENDS IF THEY ARE COUPLES OR IF THEY ARE DATING.Sheesh, Hate When That Happens!! >:C  Btw, Using :D
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TheWakavorefan12 Featured By Owner Feb 1, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Agreed, I have a few guy friends on here but we're just that, friends. c:
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An0nymousFlow3rs Featured By Owner Jan 28, 2015  Student General Artist
In art class, all of my group are guys and I'm clearly not dating all 4 of them..

(or any of them)
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ChildatHeart5 Featured By Owner Jan 10, 2015
I feel your pain. T_T
Funny because my best friend is a guy named Michael. :p
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SlimesAndSkeletons Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
Im best friends with a guy at school, and everyone is like, do you like Blake? and You make a nice couple. MAKES ME SOOOO MAD.
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1RockGirl121 Featured By Owner Dec 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Ikr
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Zuorai Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2014
i swear i was partners with this boy at school and my friend came up to him like "so you've found a new girlfriend huh?"
i wanted to slam her face in to the wall so hard oh my god
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Tiktail Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2014  Professional Writer
That happens to me a lot, and it made me lost friends, because of misunderstands.

I am a girl, and the other girls get jealous and they think I will steal them the boy they love.

Please, I even told them that I don't want a couple! I live perfectly fine lonely!
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anxiety-kitten Featured By Owner Edited Nov 16, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This is something that is still hard for me to accept when it comes to my BF he is one of those guys with more female friends than male.. and I still assume the worst although he has always been faithful eventhough he lives far away from me. He always insist he loves me and that there is nobody else in the picture. I guess it's harder for me since I am not very good at making friend of my own gender..(I'm a girl btw.)
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Loling223 Featured By Owner Nov 16, 2014
HOLY CRAP THIS X1000000000

THIS IS HAPPENING ALL THE TIME 
IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH
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Marshmallow-Bunnii Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2014   Writer
Happened to me in sixth grade :l

pissed me off to no ends
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Savingfadingstars Featured By Owner Oct 24, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This happened to me once, I talked to the guy for a few days, and BAM! Rumors everywhere. I'm actually dating the guy now, but it's been like a YEAR since the rumors started. Actually, when he asked me, I was only able to say yes cause the rumors died down.
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DeMeNteD-WiNDMilLs Featured By Owner Edited Oct 21, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
i hate when people do that. i have guy friends that i goof around with and tease, so people automatically think i "like" them because they are of the mind set that if one teases someone who is of the opposite sex then they like that person :X but what they don't understand is that i do that with ally my friends regardless of their gender/sex; its just how i show my affection towards my friends. :/
not to mention people can't seem to accept the fact that i am not interested in having a romantic relationship at the moment. 
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FlareTheFireWolf Featured By Owner Oct 19, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
This is true.
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LightningChaser2000 Featured By Owner Oct 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Yeh. One time it went so far that every time someone asked if me and my friend Kris were dating I would physically punch him in the stomach to prove otherwise.
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Hawkheart29 Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Forgot to mention my BFF thru out HS was a boy and everyone, even our inner circle friends, asked if we were a couple. Girls who were crushing on him would ask me if I was his girlfriend-no, we were (and still are) just friends......Which is ironic since we both wanted to be a couple but (he told me this himself after graduation) he had no idea how to proceed and since all I wasn't getting any response whenever I tried to flirt or drop hints, I came to the conclusion that he wasn't interested in a romantic relationship so I stopped and went back to being his BFF (which I didn't mind in the least).
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Hawkheart29 Featured By Owner Oct 2, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't think he was trying to hurt you, I think he liked you as a friend and the rest was hormones talking (I had a guy friend in HS too who wanted to be more, but he got over it and we stayed friends). When it comes to the male sex and the wonderful hormones of puberty, always give them the benefit of the doubt (the first time, after that they've been warned and any farther attempts to be more-than-friends with you can be dealt with however you see fit; whether that's simply telling him 'no' or kneeing him in the nuts-your choice). My older brother describes the urges brought on by hormones like this "Imagine you're hooked on a drug and nothing in the world can get it out of your system or extinguish the craving." Yeah, basically their own personal Hell (I'll take cramps and PMS over that any day).
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TrisKat Featured By Owner Sep 28, 2014  Student General Artist
SO TRUE! My best friend 4 years ago was a guy called Alex and he treated me like all me like my gal pals here do. Everyone's like "ooo, he's your boyfriend."
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Gamaray89 Featured By Owner Aug 27, 2014  Hobbyist Digital Artist
I dont want to offend anyone but. Can you make one for the guys too? because there are some guys that hangout with girls that are there friends
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Ashely-sama-14 Featured By Owner Aug 26, 2014  Student Artist
Using... Thanks!
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Butterscotsh Featured By Owner Aug 23, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
You friendzoned them?!
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WitchBomb Featured By Owner Jun 17, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
I don't know if it still counts as "friendzoned" if the guy only sees the girl as a friend, too... :XD:
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EZSmoofie Featured By Owner Aug 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
well said...I have over 4 guyfriends....
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Cupcakequeen16 Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
OMFG I can relate! There was a guy that I became close friends with and kids at school would be asking if we are dating which is so not true. It's been like that for my WHOLE freshman year. I just hope that rumor doesn't continue to next year.

Thank you for making this stamp!
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ToonFreakBrony Featured By Owner Aug 13, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
True.
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honeychany Featured By Owner Aug 11, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
So true
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100Cat Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014
It gets annoying, doesn't it? One of my friends at school is a boy, and kids ask if we're dating. I give them the same response: "No, I'm asexual." Then they ask what that means.
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courtneypoke123 Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Super true. Last year, all of the girls in my classy were too...i don't know...girly, so I hung out with the guys. talked about pokemon, hunting fishing...i was happy. Then they all make boyfriend rumors. Seriously?
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